Is money really important for getting what you want? Find out how to get The Girl of Your Dream without money.

Yesterday I posted an article revealing the 4th principle of making success with the opposite sex. To my surprise, there were a few comments on the post stating that the only key to a Girl of Your Dream’s heart is money, money and money once again. To tell you the truth, having read these comments I had a mixture of feelings. At one point people who were claiming that – were right. The striving for money and material benefits is genetically in women’s nature. However I would like to shake these men’s convictions. In the course of my life I came to an opinion that money is not that important and let me explain you how to get what you want without it.

First of all we need to understand what money is and what is its purpose. Money is a universal medium of exchange. According to Wikipedia: “Money is anything that is generally accepted as payment for goods and services and repayment of debts.” (Pay attention that I stressed the word ”anything”).

The more money anybody has – the more he or she can afford. We can actually buy almost anything, except immortality and the sincerity of other people’s feelings. In my previous post there was a parallel between people and animals (sorry for that but there are some things that we need to take into account). In animal world a female mostly chooses that he-male which is the strongest, the healthiest or the smartest (as for example cuttlefish). Following this rule the female is guaranteed to have the best pattern of genes passed to her posterity.

The same thing happens to people. We choose our partner according to the same principles. More money means more possibilities for our children and better chances for them to survive.

Ok, now that we know this principle how can we use it to achieve our goals? To get what you want you should be different from those other males who want to get The Girl of Your Dream too. And now recollect what Wiki tells us about the money (at the beginning of this post). The second thing is you need to offer her anything that would substitute money. If money is the key to her door, and you do not have this key, then you need to fit a lock-pick.

What can be a substitution for money and guarantee The Girl of Your Dream that if she chooses you this would be the right choice for her and for her children?

And the answer is ...simple. It’s your non-verbal promise that her needs will be satisfied. You need to show through your actions that you are the only man with whom she would feel comfortable. That your kids will have their best chances in life, survive, and their life will be prosperous. Substitute money with your regular attention to her and her interests, give her small presents, showing her that she is important to you. But remember about the dangers which I wrote about here.

These article would look incomplete without an example. And of course a good illustration of this theory is my own story. I met my first girlfriend when I was 17 and I married The Girl of My Dream when I was 27. I don’t have a house of my own, or a solid bank account, but my wife is beautiful and we love each other. It took me ten years of many defeats and learning in order to finally reach my goal. I have learnt valuable things about life and relations between men and women and now I share this knowledge with you.

To learn more about how to improve your situation with the opposite sex I advice you to read my series of posts 10 Secrets of How to Make The Girl of Your Dream Fall in Love with You. I also encourage you to share your own life situations in the comments.